[Music] today i get to share with you another word hack that helps with mindset so much fun i love these because they're just small words and they make such a difference in the way we think they define our ability to be successful or to fail at many things so a common word we use all the time is the word if right when you're talking about goals you say if i achieve this goal then this great thing happens what i'm going to tell you is to stop using the word if when talking about goals that means you're not sure it's going to happen and what you tell your brain every time you say if is it may or may not happen i'm not confident that i'm going to achieve my goals if you change it to when you're saying when i achieve my goal then i get this prize and that when automatically tells your brain that you intend for it to happen you're confident you're going to make it happen and that's why you're deserving of whatever the prize is or the goal or whatever come reward comes from that goal i'll give you an example that a lot of people can probably relate to right if i lose 10 pounds then i'll get a new dress new suit new clothes whatever right so that's not saying that i'm confident losing 10 pounds it's if it happens right i'm not very committed when i lose 10 pounds then i will get myself a new dress you see the difference you feel the difference more importantly so use one so that you can be confident your goals and make yourself more likely to achieve them feel the success tell your mind that you're going to achieve it so that you can achieve it don't be wishy-washy being wishy-washy i laugh because it's a funny phrase but wishy-washy means you're not gonna probably accomplish it you're not really in for the win so get rid of wishy-washy use the word when and make it happen [Music] you