[Music] i'm excited to share another mindset hack with you today i love these right just small little changes like changing impossible to getting rid of i am and it's possible right i'm possible so the one for today though is not that we've talked about that before but it is changing the word half or the phrase have to to get to what does this do so let's just look at some scenarios right i have to go to this meeting in an hour i have to go play with my kid i'm tired it's the end of the day and i don't have the energy i have to go to the grocery store right all those things when you say have to are burdens they're hard they don't sound fun right i mean in my face when i say them if right but change them to i get to go to this meeting think about the difference i'm grateful i have a job i'm grateful i have a voice i'm grateful someone asked me to be a part of this meeting your attitude is completely different i have to go to this meeting it's going to be a terrible meeting i'm not looking forward to it oh my gosh how horrible could it be i get to go to this meeting you come with a refreshed attitude my kid i have a four-year-old he is unbelievably busy and runs around non-stop and at the end of the day that's hard i have to go play with him outside when i'm exhausted and tired or i get to go play with him outside and enjoy my son and appreciate the energy he has and appreciate you know this age because he's not going to be this age forever so just an example from work and an example from life but switching have to to get to really changes perspective it makes something that could be boring or hard or just you're dreading into something fun exciting that you're grateful for having the opportunity to participate in and that mindset change really makes all the difference in how you participate and engage in that activity so mindset hack for you have to change it to get to every single time it'll really change your attitude you